

So here is the update. My father James Lee Wiren passed away on Wednesday, June 25, 2014. After a few days of crazy cleaning and decision making, we had the funeral on Saturday, June 28th. My mom was very adamant that we have it on a Saturday, so that no one would have to miss work to be there, and we could include all the local cousins and extended family in the area. They have been such a support to my parents, that it would not have been right not to consider their schedules. We had close to 40 people for the luncheon afterwards, so it was great to be able to have a mini family reunion to celebrate the life of my dad. It would have been HUGE had we been having the ceremony in Vancouver. My dad touched the lives of so many people there in the Vancouver area, it would have been crazy. But we were able to get a notice in the paper there, so our loved ones there would be able to hear the news.
The ceremony was simple. My Uncle gave the eulogy, then Morgan sang "Be Still My Soul" with me accompanying her. Then I read Stasi's tribute, which was not without tears, and finally my parents home teacher spoke for a few minutes about the 7 years he had spent in New Plymouth. The procession then went out to the graveyard, here in New Plymouth. It is where a lot of my mom's relatives were interred also. They got two plots, so we are all ready for my mom ;o). She doesn't mind having her name on a gravestone already.

My brothers took care of the military side of it, and arranged the military tribute at the end of the procession. It was a new experience for Jeff too. He had to give the family prayer before the funeral services, and he was also asked to dedicate the grave. He did a fantastic job with both of these responsibilities. As my mom said, "I like the way Jeff does things."
All in all, it was a wonderful way for our family to celebrate the life of my dad. My mom is doing well. Her blood sugar and stress levels have been much more tolerable and we will keep her busy for the next few weeks, as she adjusts to the changes that have come into her life. I know she will do just fine. She needs to, so she can take care of those two mongrels that live with her.


And we all know how irreverent I can be. I have to add the the mortuary did dad no service with the make-up they put on him. Everyone commented on it, so I went up with a tissue and touched him up a bit. Sydney gave me the thumbs up, that it looked better. Sydney also wanted to poke grandpa in the belly, because he would always blow up his belly and she would "pop" it. It is never easy, but know the gospel as we do is a wonderful thing. He is surrounded by family and loved ones that have gone on before. I know it, and know that he is at peace. Thanks for all the calls and words of encouragement. We can't do it without you!